Fun with Friends in the Cave

photo (4)In my 20s, I remember telling a counselor I really didn’t have any friends or any time to work friends in. I had been in an abusive marriage with a spouse that bullied me–what I did, who I did it with, and where I did it were all his business and none of mine. I had a child very young, and as a young professional and single mom, I was just trying to get through each day without the whole tower crashing down. Friends were a perk that I couldn’t afford.

As I moved out of that dark time, I thought about that counselor’s comment: “Why don’t you have friends? You seem like you would be a great friend.”

I never forgot that. I knew I could be a great friend. As I looked closer inside, I realized it was about accepting that part of myself that is deserving of whole, renewing, balanced relationships.

Now, one of my core values is connection. We are all connected whether we choose to acknowledge that or not, but friends add a balanced connection that makes my life brilliant with color. I love my friends. The ones I keep love me back. It’s a beautiful dance through life and one that makes me smile.harvey2

This weekend was one of those times. A group of us returned for a second annual wine tasting trip to Amador County. We took over a Bed & Breakfast called The Foxes Inn in Sutter Creek, California. After wandering into the tasting room next door to the Inn last year, we joined the wine club. A perk was a free wine tasting/food pairing in the caves of Bella Grace’s winery for us and friends. Obviously, we had to return. (I mean, it would be wasteful not to.)


The weekend was full of many things. The colors of Fall adorning a small little mining town called Sutter Creek.


A quaint little Bed & Breakfast called The Foxes Inn right on Main across from the local Saloon.pretty

 Unseasonably warm autumn sun.

A full moon watching over our night moves.moon

A herd of deer running through the wheat fields. Wild turkeys braver than you’d expect with Thanksgiving right around the bend. The best food and wine you can dream up. Brisk morning walks. Lovely people who have built their lives around celebrating wine from grape to table. Gourmet shops with local products that can only be called food art. (I mean, potato chips with truffle oil? Pita chips based out of tomato pita, toasted and paired with homemade hummus?)

But of all those amazing things, the most valuable by far to me is the time with friends. Just sitting on a rock.girlsonarock

Tasting a grape off the vine.fruit

Learning a town by the way it feels early in the morning before it wakes up.

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These are the moments I treasure. These are the times that keep me healthy. These are the moments that take my breath away.

About @jamieweil

I'm on an adventure to bring happiness, relaxation, and some shine to a stressed out world. You might call it a Divine mission. Covid Season 2020 has taught me some important lessons about myself and about you, but most importantly about US. I have written about those in a book called Shine: When Chasing Sacred Spaces Goes Dark, my 6th book which came out December 2020 and hit #1 Bestseller in 7 categories thanks to my readers. I teach an online class to empower empaths through writing and am holding my first writing retreat for empaths under the Full Flower Moon and Lunar Eclipse May 5-7, 2023 in mystical Mt. Shasta, California. We have sold our house, not bought another, and have set out on a synchronistic adventure with Kai, our 103 pound lab, at the center. We call it The Kainnection Adventure. Dogs are the equalizers of all. (Home base:
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6 Responses to Fun with Friends in the Cave

  1. Beth Hull says:

    That sounds lovely! It’s also a great reminder for me to connect with my friends more often!


    • jamieweilhealthcoach says:

      And drink wine. And go on long hikes. But yeah, mostly connect with friends. It’ll make you live longer and we all want that!


  2. Tammy says:

    Beautiful 🙂


  3. Janet says:

    I loved thi, being a mid-westerner trasnplanted here in southern CA I enjoyed reading about the Autumn. Friends are truly wonderful and to be cherished.


  4. jamieweilhealthcoach says:

    Are the trees changing there, Janet? Remember when we used to sit on the sundeck under the Willow and the Liquid Ambers would all turn bright red because of my need to artificially create Autumn in our back yard? Those colors were amazing as were our moments together under them.


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