Got Creative. (Part 2–Dare to be You)

Recap of Part 1: I’d signed my husband and I up for this really awesome Paint A Splash adventure where you paint and drink wine in the tasting room at a winery. The project was lavender fields which is pretty much my favorite thing. This launched a birthday celebration get-away for the two of us which made it that much more special.

General Yelp Review: 5 –no 10– stars! If any part of you wants to paint, you’ve got to find a class like this and go.



We drove out into the oak studded hills, where wineries like to live, and to a tasting room set up with 20 easels, each with its own paint plate, canvas, brush set, and apron. Each artist can choose a spot at the table, and a glass (or bottle) from the bar.


Our very attentive Erin was at the bar the entire time to refill glasses, shoot pictures, and share local fun facts like “we now have 32 wineries in the North North.” Who knew? Even if you don’t imbibe, it’s handy to have an Erin lurking around.

We had a picnic while we waited, primarily due to our poor planning on checking the time of the restaurant which closed (oddly enough) at 2 on a Friday. Make lemonade! We hit the Holiday deli and ate al fresco under the trees.

After everyone settled in we had step-by-step instruction from Sylvia Bee, instructor extraordinaire. She had this sketched out on our canvas before we got started which really helped newbies like us who have never painted a stroke. Most people were new painters so this took the edge off the fear of a blank canvas.

At Sylvia’s instruction, we started at the top and worked our way down the canvas. My “aha moment” came when I looked at how unique everyone’s creations were at each level of the landscape. We all were told how to make the sky, but each sky was very different. It made me think about how each of us are all here for a purpose, but the manifestation of that unique thumbprint plays out so differently for each of us. That’s why comparing our journeys (or our paintings) is silly. We all live our own unique trajectory. And dismissing our process (“it’s like painting by numbers” was a common murmur) is counterproductive. Baby steps are master teachers.

On that comparing thing, there was definitely a palpable current of nervous energy from many of the painters in the room who worried that their neighbor’s trees (clouds, lavender rows, etc.) were better than theirs.  The wine helped a little, but not entirely. I suppose this is human nature, but if I’d had a wand and could pick my wish for those painters, I’d have wished for each painter to relax, enjoy the journey, and just appreciate the beauty of her own creation.

And process. Even with measured instruction, everybody has a different style. Take my creative husband, for example. He did his lavender rows upside down. So clever.

After walking through each layer of the canvas, and blow drying our levels in between, we had our big decision of the night: a house or sheep. I picked sheep, which looked a lot like fish until we learned the secret “sharpie in the legs” trick.

When the evening wrapped three and a half hours after it began, I couldn’t believe that much time had passed. We had created our own masterpieces just as we each do with our lives each day.

If you live locally and want to do this, Sylvia rocks. If you don’t live locally, find one near you. Go ahead! Get creative.

About @jamieweil

I'm on an adventure to bring happiness, relaxation, and some shine to a stressed out world. You might call it a Divine mission. Covid Season 2020 has taught me some important lessons about myself and about you, but most importantly about US. I have written about those in a book called Shine: When Chasing Sacred Spaces Goes Dark, my 6th book which came out December 2020 and hit #1 Bestseller in 7 categories thanks to my readers. I teach an online class to empower empaths through writing and am holding my first writing retreat for empaths under the Full Flower Moon and Lunar Eclipse May 5-7, 2023 in mystical Mt. Shasta, California. We have sold our house, not bought another, and have set out on a synchronistic adventure with Kai, our 103 pound lab, at the center. We call it The Kainnection Adventure. Dogs are the equalizers of all. (Home base:
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14 Responses to Got Creative. (Part 2–Dare to be You)

  1. Karin says:

    What awesome insight! 🙂 Love your paintings, too! So fun!!!


    • jamieweilhealthcoach says:

      Thanks, Karin! Totally was. Oooh, I know. We could do a paint class of our characters–THAT would make naming them easier! Good to see you/read you.:)


  2. I’m so glad you shared this experience! I love the paintings. I so want to do this, without the wine though. So fun!


    • jamieweilhealthcoach says:

      And that’s the beauty of it! You totally don’t have to drink the wine. Check out the calendar and see what you like. We can go and YOU can drive;)


  3. lorlinda says:

    You and your husband look like you’re having a great time. I’m glad it was as much fun as you thought it was going to be. Here’s to creativity! Hugs, Lorlinda


    • jamieweilhealthcoach says:

      So fun! I know you’re an expert (I’ve seen your flowers!), but for us newbies, we’re pretty sure we should be named Van Gough or something artsy. Hugs! Jamie


  4. Katherine says:

    Bravissimo! Bella! Vino!!


  5. Janet says:

    Wow, is all I can say. Is there no end to you and Mike’s creativity?Fabulous, just fabulous.


  6. jamieweilhealthcoach says:

    Ha! Are you just so impressed with our wine paintings? Thanks from the bottom of my heart for always being my biggest fan:) xo


  7. Beth Hull says:

    That is so awesome, Jamie! I love it – your painting, your insights, your bravery & sense of adventure – all of it.


    • jamieweilhealthcoach says:

      Aww, thanks, Beth, for checking in and for your kind words. Make me a praise junkie, why don’t you. I was at yoga with Stella last week and we were talking about the teaching days, reminiscing. Your mom’s name came up and I said, “I just love her daughter!” I’m so glad I’ve gotten to know you.


  8. Professions for PEACE says:

    How awesome is this? Love it!! I’ve been jotting down creative ‘date’ ideas, fun and different activities to do with my husband – and your idea here rocks! Thanks so much Jamie.
    Cheers, Gina


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