Therapy Dog

servicedogWhen we brought Kai home, I knew I wanted him to be a therapy dog. His name means “restoration and recovery” in Japanese, which I didn’t know when we named him that. He’s actually named after Kailua-Kona, an area on the Big Island of Hawaii, which is our restoration and recovery place. Cool, right? Restoration in several languages, our boy.

I didn’t know much about therapy dogs other than they go where people need comfort of some kind and comfort them. I just knew his spirit fit with that service.

The breeder we bought Kai from wanted him to be a show dog. This was not his personality at all. Besides, the whole show dog scene wreaked of beauty pageants in the mid-West, or child actors in Southern California. That’s not a life I want for those I love. I told the breeder I was really not feeling the show dog thing. I explained again we wanted him to be a therapy dog. Our goals were different for this boy. It came to a head one weekend when he stayed with her so we could attend our son’s swim championships and she overfed him despite my (and the vet’s) instructions. I felt like I was interacting with a meddling mother-in-law. When I explicitly told her not to do that, and she did it anyway, she crossed a boundary in our relationship. That was the end of that.

Luckily and synchronistically, the trainer we had been working with that I really liked turned out to be a therapy dog trainer. I was so excited to learn that. We had training sessions with Kai so that we could make sure we were taking the right steps to socialize him and prepare him for his therapy dog test at 1 year. The trainer gave us lots of literature and a hierarchy of exposures that we needed to make sure we fit into early socialization windows. He needed to go on elevators, escalators, meet all different kinds of people (lots of them) and be exposed to many different loud sirens. I had to do that online since we rarely have those in the country where we live. We worked our way up the hierarchy of exposure.

We started taking him to swim meets where our youngest son swims. It was a great opportunity for him to meet many different people, hear loud noises, see swimming (and not jump in the pool!) and practice his service. I noticed how the kids would approach him between races and how he would help them. Restoration and recovery. kaisidneyHe definitely started to build his fan club. Sydney, here, even talked her parents into training a therapy dog of her own.

His new friends would ask, “How do you make a dog a therapy dog?”

People would ask, “Are you going to send him away?”

Many people don’t understand the difference between a service dog and a therapy dog. A service dog is a dog you train to help a person with a specific disability and send away to go live with that person. That’s not what we’re doing. Kai is part of our family. A therapy dog is different. The US Therapy of Dog Registry defines a therapy dog this way:

A therapy dog is a dog trained to provide affection and comfort to people in hospitals, retirement homes, nursing homes, schools, hospices, disaster areas, and to people with autism. Therapy dogs are usually not assistance or service dogs, but can be one or both with some organizations.

In order to learn more about how to tailor my daily training routine with Kai, I asked the trainer what I should be working on with Kai. She asked if I wanted to attend the pre-evaluation session and before I knew it, I was volunteering yesterday at the evaluation. I met the dogs, both small and large, that were there to be evaluated or to be “extras” in the evaluation. The extras help the prospective therapy dogs with distractions. Here are a few of those canines:

dogtherapy3Meet Atticus. He’s an experienced Therapy Dog used as an extra in this evaluation. He’s a very sweet Rhodesian Ridgeback with a fabulously healing disposition. Note his handsome Therapy Dog ascot.

Then, there’s Choco Loco. He’s getting ready to become a therapy dog. He’s a lapper, which means he gets to sit in people’s laps.dogtherapy1




And Foxy Loxy. Also a lapper. Pretty sure they’re related. It’s in the eyes.dogtherapy2




As the day went on, more dogs wandered in and out. They practiced all their skills (there’s a long list of tasks and behaviors they need to demonstrate.) I learned things I didn’t know, like in hospitals humans can transfer certain diseases like MRSA to dogs so you have to be careful where you go. You need to have people sanitize their hands first before they pet your dog.

I also learned that these animals are used in classrooms to help children to read. As a reading specialist, I will be taking Kai with me to do this in classrooms–and first, teaching the importance of hand sanitization Day 1. He loves kids so this will be a really great fit. I love that this is even a thing. I think back to when I taught 2nd grade. My kids would have loved it.

After Therapy Dog Day, I had a new list of 14 points in my notes on my phone to practice. Kai has six months to go before his big day. Luckily, the test falls in April right around his birthday. Then, look out kiddos. Kai’s coming to help you with phonics while restoring you simultaneously…right after he restores himself. Rest up, little buddy.kaitherapy4


About @jamieweil

I'm on an adventure to bring happiness, relaxation, and some shine to a stressed out world. You might call it a Divine mission. Covid Season 2020 has taught me some important lessons about myself and about you, but most importantly about US. I have written about those in a book called Shine: When Chasing Sacred Spaces Goes Dark, my 6th book which came out December 2020 and hit #1 Bestseller in 7 categories thanks to my readers. I teach an online class to empower empaths through writing and am holding my first writing retreat for empaths under the Full Flower Moon and Lunar Eclipse May 5-7, 2023 in mystical Mt. Shasta, California. We have sold our house, not bought another, and have set out on a synchronistic adventure with Kai, our 103 pound lab, at the center. We call it The Kainnection Adventure. Dogs are the equalizers of all. (Home base:
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4 Responses to Therapy Dog

  1. Katherine Wenglikowski says:

    Are you going to test with Therapy Dog Int’l? I know there are other certification programs but TDI is the one Chase does.

    How are you?




  2. jamieweilhealthcoach says:

    I’m not sure, K. It’s a monthly commitment–I know that. It’s whatever group our trainer is affiliated with. I’ll let you know as my awareness opens up to the deets. What does Chase do? Hospitals? Readings? Fancy restaurants? (Hey, people are stressed there too! I’ve seen Chopped!) I’m great–sorry you’ll be missing the Redneck Barbecue bash in Amador, though! How are you?! 😘


  3. Karen C says:

    I had a wonderful pet therapy dog which I was able to work with for over 10 years. I was a member of Prescription Pets, a great organization. I visited hospitals, assisted living facilities, Simpson College, schools, and private requests. It was so fulfilling and both my dog and I loved every minute of it. You become a team, and it is a wonderful bonding experience with your dog. It was amazing to me how the dog can walk into a room with two patients and know which ones needs the most attention. You will love it. Best wishes for your new adventure.


    • jamieweilhealthcoach says:

      Oh, wow! What a great story and a great affirmation for this work that we are doing with Kai. As the blog states, the journey is purely driven by intuition and I am always so intrigued to see where that leads me. It never disappoints. Thank you so much, Karen C, for sharing your experience and casting a smile on my face. Hugs to you!


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